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3 Things Parents Should Never Do: Part 3
Posted on January 24th, 2010 No commentsThree Things Parents Should Never Do When Communicating with Teenagers
Part 3 Never Blame
There are three things a parent should avoid when communicating with their precious minds full of mush (teenagers).
- Never seek agreement
- Never justify your actions or words
- Never blame
Blaming can often been seen as a hierarchal struggle for survival in a family, from the oldest sibling down to the youngest child. In our family the dog is in play and some years ago, blaming escalated to such a level that Cheri and I discovered a resident ghost named Ralph causing all sorts of mischief in our home.


