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3 Things Parents Should Never Do When Communicating with Teenagers
Posted on January 17th, 2010 No commentsThree Things Parents Should Never Do When Communicating with Teenagers
Part 1: Never Seek Agreement
There are three things a parent should avoid when communicating with their precious minds full of mush (teenagers).
- Never seek agreement
- Never justify your actions or words
- Never blame the teenager for something you don’t approve
When communicating, the #1 rule is that you are 100 percent responsible for gaining understanding, not for being understood. There is a difference. It is not incumbent upon your child to decipher your words and meaning.


